Category: Blarghing

Whenever GBBO announcers say “one minute remaining!” and then cuts to a frantic mess of decorating and panicking which doesn’t last a full minute.  Why can’t the editors have George Michael’s unfailing internal clock?

No, not bread. The other definition, whereby a group of people raise their glasses, sing praises about someone, and proceed to sip (or chug, there is no in between) their drinks. Specifically, I want to discuss compliments.

True compliments are rare, and it’s no wonder that I find it difficult to accept them sincerely. My “thanks!” and “I appreciate it” always seem to fall flat. WikiHow, the premier website for the anxiety-ridden population, even has a whole page dedicated to this subject. Maybe the reason for this is that we just need more practice taking in a compliment. Conversely, that means we, as a population, need to give out more sincere compliments to friends, family and even strangers.

A better question should be why aren’t compliments more widely given? In my experience, well-to-do children in stable households accumulate accolades fast. “You worked so hard Timmy! Great job!” or “Look at you Tess, someone did marvelously.” The smallest thing was worthy of praise. I still remember being quite proud of family friends complimenting my height when I was in elementary school. While shallow in nature, it instilled self-esteem and made a boy happier.

But past the grade school period, I found that compliments dry up from family and friends. Perhaps it is because there is less to “celebrate” as we age. Birthdays become ho-hum and holidays can even be depressing at times. There’s also the simple fact that compliments usually results from an action or change in a lifestyle (e.g. new wardrobe, physique, graduation, career change, marriage etc.) and those events are sparse.

Compliments from strangers are even rarer, and has actually been studied more. It seems that there are three-ish main reasons:

1. People underestimate the power of a genuine compliment.
2. People overestimate how awkward a social interaction is
3. People are anxious talking to someone in general

The conclusion from the study: just compliment people more! Everyone will feel better, and it’s not difficult. Comedy Central’s Toast might never materialize, but I can certainly start doing my part by giving out more genuine, compliments.

Definition:

a deep emotional state of nostalgic or profound melancholic longing for something or someone that one cares for and/or loves. Moreover, it often carries a repressed knowledge that the object of longing might never be had again. It is the recollection of feelings, experiences, places, or events that once brought excitement, pleasure, and well-being, which now trigger the senses and make one experience the pain of separation from those joyous sensations. However it acknowledges that to long for the past would detract from the excitement you feel towards the future.

Went to a wedding this past weekend for a childhood friend. In spite of Fred, the ceremony was beautiful and emotional. The reception was fun, and it feels good to let loose and be in the present. Danced the night away.

At the same time, I kept on being reminded of times long past. It might be because I roomed with my high school friends. It might be because it was near where Ashley and Alex’s wedding was. It might be because I am a sentimental bitch.

Will be a long brain dump of locations and my basic itinerary.

Also, WordPress somehow compresses the image to be blurry; open images in new tab to see originals.

All the locations mentioned are tagged here.

Day 1:

• Arrive at airport which didn’t take too long probably because it was a Monday that I landed. I’ve heard lines can get long for Friday and weekends. Border control was not difficult to navigate even with COVID restrictions. Don’t be dumb is my best advice here.
• Got my rental car from GoIceland. Seeing the poor reviews online, decided to get the extra insurance for peace of mind. If I were to do it again, I would rent from a more reputable source than this company. (Also, there’s Go Rentals, which is an entirely different company that I accidentally walked to lol).
• Drove to the supermarket Bonus, Icelandic Trader Joe’s, and got supplies. See tips below regarding food.
• First attraction I went to was Thingvellir National Park which was beautiful. In hindsight, it was not as impressive as the other views but rather serve as a historical monument. I recommend downloading the corresponding app which gives more details than the placards scattered about the park. Took only one hour to explore the park.
  
• I had enough time in the day to drive to Reykjadalur thermal river. This is an easy ~3km hike which ended with a flowing hot spring at the end! Definitely bring a swimsuit and towel (and a beer if you have one). The hike itself has great vistas and valleys too.
  
• Finally, established camp after hiking down in the nearby town.

Day 2:

• Went to Bruarfoss Waterfall hike, which was quite short in total, with the ending being a beautifully blue waterfall. There were two other waterfalls on the hike.
• Stopped at Urriðafoss. It’s one of the largest in Iceland, but honestly not so photogenic, and I’ll skip the picture.
• Took a slight detour from the Highway 1 and stopped by Gluggafoss. This is a unique waterfall, where it goes through “windows” of rocks and creates a neat effect.
  
• Next waterfall on waterfall day was Seljalandsfoss and Gljufrabui. The former can be seen driving along the road and is huge in size. The cool thing here is that one can walk behind the cascading water. The later is a short 500m hike north and is a waterfall nestled inside a cave. Super neat. (Got free parking here since some nice Samaritan gave me their display tag which lasts the whole day).
  
• Then, went to the Skogar area with several different things to do. First, there’s a small, hidden valley-esque waterfall called Kvernufoss which I did. One has to park in a museum parking lot and hike 500m to see a beautiful valley with another waterfall that one can walk behind.
  
  Fortunately, Kvernufoss is right by Skogafoss, a monolithic waterfall. But, the best part of this, is that it is right by the Fimmvorduhals Trailhead, an incredible trail with over 26 waterfalls along the way. I only hiked 2.5kms of it and was thoroughly impressed with the views.
  

• Long second day ended with trip to Reynisfjara Black Sand Beach. At the time, I was super impressed with the color, but it turns out that these types of beaches are a dime a dozen across Iceland. Rather, the things I found cool was the flow of the ocean through the sand bars and the basalt formations. There are two parking spots, and both are worth visiting. The one to the west allows a few point of an arch, and the eastern allows one to actually walk on the beach.

  
  

• For the evening, I drove all the way to Þakgil, which is a campsite that is quite a ways away from civilization. I didn’t realize the roads were all gravel for 15kms. The campsite was okay in terms of facilities, but it was super crowded and the coldest shower I’ve taken in Iceland. It’s definitely a place where a ton of locals go.

Day 3:

• Started off with learning how to operate the tire pump at an Icelandic gas station. That was fun.
• For some reason, there was a dust storm along where I drove. Visibility was reduced, and everything was a pale yellow shade. The first stop for the day was Fjaðrárgljúfur canyon. The dust did reduce the visual impact, but it was beautiful nevertheless. It honestly looks like something out of a postcard.
  
• I skipped a few sights to gun for the glacier. I should’ve took my time as there were several sights I skipped (see list below). I first stopped at Fjallsárlón which was a glacial lagoon. This area just reminded me of Alaska as a whole.
  
• The natural next stop is Diamond Beach and Jökulsárlón glacier lagoon. This is a much more impressive stop than Fjallsárlón and was also had more of a crowd. A really magical place to be honest, and pictures don’t do it justice. Bring something warm to wear here.
  
• To camp, I drove up to Stokksnes. I found this cute little campsite which was by a mountain and black sand beach. It was absolutely beautiful. Included with the campsite was a visit onto an abandoned film set. It was… interesting, but the nature was prettier.

Day 4:

• Day of driving basically. Had a few stops along the way. The first was a cute little orange lighthouse Hvalnes Lighthouse.
  
• Next, was a series of sculpture eggs. I was not impressed. No pictures will be shown of this site. Another site was Sveinsstekksfoss… but I also was not impressed and pictures were not taken.
• Proceeded to Seydisfjordur, which was a cute little town. I wished I spent a bit more time/money here exploring the culture, but just walking around felt nice.
  
• Finally, camped on the far eastern village called Borgarfjörður eystri, which only has a population of around 100. One of which is an American expat who runs the camping ground. The campground was incredibly packed as there happened to be a music festival that day 🙁

Day 5:

• Started with a five hour hike around Borgarfjörður eystri. The owner of the campground told me of a great path to hike around, and the fjords were beautiful on a sunny day.
  
• I skipped two waterfalls which are pretty famous (see below) in order to make time for Westfjords, but the north of Iceland is pretty desolate in terms of population.
• Went to Leirhnjukur (quite cool; old lava field), Krafla crater (not as cool, essentially water in a round hole… which I guess is exactly what a crater lake is), and a shower head that doesn’t stop (cool, but it’s warm water *rimshot*).
  
  
• Camped by Lake Myvatn. SO MANY GNATS. It was very annoying, but they do go away when the wind gusts, which is often.

Day 6:

• Decided to treat myself, and reserved a “beer spa.” Before that, I stopped at two places along the way: Dimmuborgir and Skútustaðagígar. Dimmuborgir is an unique lava field with formations that are incredibly tall. The other site was a bunch of craters, which I didn’t like too much.

• The beer spa was quite fun actually. A very unique experience. I arrived early to first soak in the beautiful outdoor hot tubs before going in for the beer spa. The beer spa consists of young beer, hops and spent yeast meaning it has a floral smell with hints of beer. After the soak, I went to the “relaxation” space upstairs to nap it off. Included with the price is unlimited beer. The actual soak was also revitalizing.
• In the afternoon, I took a long detour around Trollasakgi Peninsula. In hindsight, seeing as I was going to Westfjords, this part was kind of redundant as the Westfjords were more beautiful with similar scenery.
• Camped at Varmahlio for the night. It had a trampoline to jump on, but I slipped and lightly scrapped my knee…

Day 7-8:

• A lot of very slow, scenic driving through the Westfjords. The roads were not that bad with the first day consisting of only paved roads I believe. There was even a Bonus at Ísafjörður, near where I camped. On my way there, I stopped by a turf-covered church in Víðimýri.
  
• After that, went to Kolugljúfur canyon. It was… okay in the grand scheme of things. Nothing to scoff at, but also nothing to write home about.
  
• Oh, and I also stopped at the place where the last execution took place in Iceland.
  
• In the actual Westfjords, I stopped at Valagil, a very short hike to another waterfall.
  
• Played with an artic fox:
  
• And saw the most majestic waterfall on the trip Dynjandi. This was one of the most awe-inspiring moments on the trip. I really cannot express how majestic this waterfall was in person, and I easily spent 2 hours here even though the trail was <15 minutes.
  
• A red sand beach Rauðisandur. I blundered on this attraction as one should go in low tide. I went at high tide and the sun was actually not up. Luckily, there was a campground right by it and I got to see more of the red/yellow/orange hues later on.
  

Day 9: Unfun. Windy. Wet. Worse day. Stopped at a church again and a place called Paradisalaut. Unimpressed by either. Made it onto the Snaefellsnes Peninsula for camp. Actually met up with a crew of motorcyclists and a backpacker from a different camp.

Day 10: Incredibly long day for me.

• First, with a new friend, climbed Kirkjufell mountain. Unfortunately, it was cloudy, but the hike was really fun with incredible views. It was also very scary and I only recommend it for folks with steady feet and hands. I bailed at the ropes section….
  
• Next, a lot of stops in Snæfellsjökull National Park, which was basically Iceland in a nutshell.
  

  

• AND THEN THE HIGHLIGHT OF THE DAY WAS WHEN I SAW THE ERUPTING VOLCANO.
  

Last day:

• Went around the capital ate some hot dogs and fermented shark. The places where I went are fairly standard and I’m tired.

Tips for trip:

• Pack some sort of cooler to store fresh food. I had to turn off my foodie brain and eat a lot of canned food on the trip. Fresh food was a luxury only when I stop at a grocery store. It was nasty in hindsight.
• Rent/pack foldable chair and table – many campsites have tables, but they’re usually occupied.
• Other things I wish I had: small amount of bug spray or bug net for Myvatn area, sunglasses or hat to block the rays, organizing bags for clothes in car, perhaps some backpacking meals.
• Roads in Iceland suck, the gravel roads are everywhere and terrible. Also, learn what a roundabout is.
• Perhaps rent an AirBnB or hostel bed for the last night. Packing up a tent in the morning is stressful and puts a damper on the vacation.

Places where I wished I went:

• • Svartifoss
  • Ásbyrgi Canyon
  • Grjótagjá
  • Góðafoss

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Doing the crossword can be quite a religious experience. The sixty six books provide a constructor with some pretty easy clues for RUTH (Book after Judges) or clever cluing for ACTS (Romans predecessor).

Similarly, ALLAH and ESAU have a wealth of high-frequency letters which means they appear quite often. GOD, oddly enough, doesn’t.

But ADONAI? On a Monday crossword? Oh god.

is defined as Carvana renting the billboard right in front of the Carmax.

1. Trader Joe’s switched up their layout. Finding the chocolate took too long.
2. Climbed in Rumney, and found a tick latched. Ugh.
3. Dutch oven from Misen came. Step 20423 to being a house husband.
4. Celeste is a good game.

Four blockbusters: The Office, 30 Rock, Community and Parks and Rec aired on NBC on the same Thursday nights at one point in time; this fact is incredible to reflect upon, and will likely never be repeated with the decline of network television. But how did NBC capture (or attempt to anyways) the nation’s attention with back to back to back to back sitcoms?

Part of the reason this bloc of four comedies succeeded was that each had different ideals and  relied on different humor “engines.” Parks and Rec was hopelessly positive about everything, and that optimism carried the show to great success after the initial trudge that was the first season. The Office, while also created by Michael Schur, was more cringe and relied on the prowess of Steve Carell.

Interestingly, I’ve noticed from re-watching a lot of these shows during WFH is that Community and 30 Rock have a lot in common. Not only do the shows share a tendency of utilizing witty repartee and homages, but the character development and themes also followed a similar arc. Nevertheless, even with these shared tenets, it is interesting to conjecture that a crossover episode would never work.

On the surface, 30 Rock and Community shouldn’t overlap much. One is about a lovable gang of misfits in a community college, and the other focuses on the relationship between a show runner, her “staff” and her boss. But it’s not the topic of the humor which unites them, but one facet is how both channel (no pun intended) their inner Abbott and Costello. At their zenith, 30 Rock and Community have fast-paced zingers peppering every line of dialogue. This sort of pitter patter, which makes one’s own real life conversations feel dull and mundane at times, really contrasts with the mockumentary dialogue of the other two NBC offerings. Indeed, it more so reflects Arrested Development, a show which both Dan Harmon and Tina Fey has accredited to being inspirational.

On top of this repartee,  both have an Dada-esque undertone throughout the shows, and I’m not even accounting for some of the fantastical elements in each show (can we talk about how Liz’s stomach is its own magical entity?). In the most mundane of scenarios, a veil of meta-ness would peep out at the perfect times. Of course, in Community, Abed was the clear vehicle for this:

It makes every 10 minutes feel like the beginning of a new scene of a TV show. Of course the illusion lasts until someone says something they never say on TV, like how much their life is like TV. There, it’s gone.

But 30 Rock, a show about people running a show, also has a large share of meta humor:

We’re on a show within a show! My real name is Tracy Morgan!

This probably stemmed from the show runners’ backgrounds. After all, both Fey and Harmon have roots in sketch comedy troupes where breaking the fourth wall is valuable technique for engaging the audience.

On top of the dialogue, music plays a surprisingly large role in the duo. The early Community seasons had many great original soundtracks made specifically for episodes and overall had fantastic music choices. The most glaring example is the Spanish library rap which was repurposed twice: once to apply for the “cool” study group (where Pierce also brings back his musical number GDB) and the other was with the loving Betty White. The latter seasons unfortunately didn’t have such intricate musical numbers, due to the lack of funding and the departure of Childish Gambino.

Conversely, 30 Rock usage of sound bites and musical numbers stayed more consistent, one is partly due to the premise of running a variety show and the other is 30 Rock’s usage of musical themes. The first point should be pretty obvious. For the second usage, 30 Rock would sometimes associate a novel musical motif with a particular character in a situation, and call upon that motif anytime the situation arises. This was particularly noticeable for Jack’s girlfriends: Phoebe and Elisa both had distinct themes when they are in potentially compromising situations. While small, this attention to creativity goes a long way.

Finally, a lot of both shows humor revolves around elaborate, fictional homages while interspersing real pop culture. Dan Harmon did a fabulous job on this aspect with the best being the paintball episodes of Community paying homage to Westerns, space Westerns (e.g. Star Wars) and spy flicks. On 30 Rock’s sides, Queen of Jordan is a clear “spinoff” of Real Housewives.

A sitcom also can’t succeed if there is no heart to the cast; while bits makes for great five minute Youtube clips, a story arc sells seasons. In a lot of ways, 30 Rock’s and Community’s male lead both share the same story line. Both lands in a place (NBC, Greendale) which they both initially thought would be a simple stepping stone towards their final goal (CEO at GM, being a lawyer again), yet no amount of hard work could overcome unfortunate circumstances (bought out by Cabletown, season 5 repilot).

Initially, Jack and Jeff view the other cast members as simple tools to achieve their goals, but gradually start to form meaningful relationships with them. The two have internal reorientation of what they consider success and expect from life. The leads soften up, and become a more complete person at the end of the shows.

One can also draw connections between other characters. Liz very much resembles Abed in how both of them came to achieve what they wanted through deep character growth. Abed noticeably becomes more empathetic and learns the human-side of film making, resulting in his final departure to Hollywood. Liz realizes what she values in life and a partner which allowed her to tank TGS. On the other side, Britta and Jenna both became increasingly weird…

In conclusion, two great shows with great dialogue that uses homages and meta humor to tell, usually, relatable stories in vastly different settings. As an exercise to the reader (e.g. this blog post has more than 1000 words now and I’m tired), consider how a crossover episode would work. Does the dynamic change is the episode happened in a different season? Which characters would not work at all?